Why don’t white people believe people of color about racism?


After the tragic police shootings of Terence Crutcher and Keith Lamont Scott, some white people fell into a typical offensive behavior pattern. Despite damning video evidence, they want to know more about the story. They insist that if black people only behaved a certain way, and taught their children to do the same, they wouldn’t have to worry about being killed by police.  Continue reading “Why don’t white people believe people of color about racism?”


Weekend reading


Becoming an abortion provider in red state America

A state-by-state list of the lies abortion doctors are forced to tell women

Study: #BlackLivesMatter hashtag has encouraged racial discourse

Free-range parenting is a privilege for the white and affluent

Immigration is probably the best way to fight crime

Weekend reading


A cri de coeur from jazz musicians in a Black Lives Matter age

If Ryan Lochte misled us about armed robbery, how can we trust any man who says he’s a victim of theft?

On Nate Parker, rape and the perils of double consciousness

The Daily Beast Grindr stunt is sleazy, dangerous and wildly unethical

An in-depth look at the death of Mario Woods at the hands of the San Francisco Police Department

Attitudes about Black Lives Matter parallel attitudes about the civil rights movement


We’ve all probably seen some kind of documentary about the civil rights movement and scoffed at the ignorant white person who complained that the movement was “moving too fast” or that they were going to alienate people with their tactics. It’s safe and comfortable and we have the distance of history and hindsight that allows us to admire their bravery and support their efforts.  Continue reading “Attitudes about Black Lives Matter parallel attitudes about the civil rights movement”

Weekend reading

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The history of what it took to get home pregnancy tests, including worries that women couldn’t be trusted with their own pregnancy tests

David Oyelowo’s big cause: how the actor hopes to bring gender equality to Hollywood

Clinton’s defense of “peace-loving Muslims” is a bad response to Trump’s offensive comments

With the “Mothers of the Movement,” Democrats put their base’s concerns above political caution

It’s time to get over your white feelings and start taking action for black lives

Massachusetts took a big, unprecedented step to help close the gender wage gap

You can be anti-Trump without slut shaming Melania

Weekend reading


The forgotten history of female athletes who organized their own Olympics

Federal appeals court strikes down the worst voter suppression law in the nation

Hillary Clinton shattered the glass ceiling. #BlackWomenDidThat honors those who helped

Feministing talks to comedian Aparna Nancherla

A tongue-in-cheek list of nonthreatening leadership strategies for women

The Navy plans to name a ship after gay rights icon Harvey Milk

Back in 1995, Walmart banned this feminist t-shirt

The WNBA’s Black Lives Matter protest has set a new standard for sports activism

Why men want to marry Melanias and raise Ivankas

Wednesday watch: 4 Black Lives Matter myths debunked

Many of us dread getting into a conversation with an “All Lives Matter” person. In the heat of this election season and the growing power of the Black Lives Matter movement, we’re likely to have a lot more discussions with people who cling to myths about BLM and what it represents.

As Franchesca Ramsey points out, we need to have these uncomfortable conversations in order to make progress. Her video offers a handy guide to debunking 4 common arguments people make against Black Lives Matter.